May 19 2008
Unfamiliar Similarities-The Children of Costa Rica
When I pictured the people of Costa Rica, especially the children, I had always gone by the pictures that all those magazines plant in your head: starving children dressed in rags, playing soccer outside a ramshackle cottage. Of course, I should have known better, but I was still surprised at how normal these people seemed, how like us. Yes, many of them were way beyond us in the world of soccer, and yes, some of the houses were not as large as ours, but is that really a bad thing? It did make me wonder though, just how different is life for children in Costa Rica than in the U.S?

As we drove up the steep, dusty road to Monteverde, we encountered fewer and fewer houses. However, there was still the occasional child walking along the road, or playing outside the house. As we went by, we waved and took pictures. They smiled and waved back, then went back to whatever they had happened to be doing. Maybe kids in the U.S. would have done the same, but they seemed so unsurprised to see a giant blue bus full of gringos go rumbling past, with cameras pointed at them from every open window. Tourism is just such a bigger part of life there.
Later, at our homestay, I got to know the two girls there, particularly Natalia ( age 8 ) who attempted to communicate with us while her mother made dinner. I learned that she liked to dance, and took classes at the local school, which she described as “muy linda” (very nice). There was one thing though, that the whole family disliked about the school: English was not offered as a subject there. And, if you want a good job in Costa Rica, you want to be able to speak English. Unfortunately, the nearest school that did offer English as a subject was a far way away and the mother figured her daughter would spend more time on the bus then in school. Therefore, none of the family knew any English. It wasn’t really this that surprised me, more the need to know English. Yes, we do learn Spanish in school, but what are we going to use it for? They use it to make a good life for themselves.

But really, they aren’t that different from the rest of us. They do speak a different language, and some have slightly different colored skin. It’s surprising though, the differences of skin color in Costa Rica. Although there are some that fit our idea of dark skin, dark hair, and dark eyes, there are also many who don’t. There was one boy we met, around two years old, who had skin almost as white as mine along with blond hair to match. Then there are the cultural things, such as the importance of family, the amount of rice and beans everyone eats, and simply the different relationship between them and the land. Many of the children seem much closer to the earth simply because much of their life revolves around it. Many of their parents work on the land, making it a crucial part of life. However, all this is outweighed by the fact that we are all human. Costa Ricans play sports, read books, take dance lessons, and eat with forks and knives at tables in houses. And the innocence of children is always the same, wherever in this world you might be.
-Ferne




